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Po ur\u010ditom \u010dase vo vz\u0165ahu v\u017edy … ","datePublished":"2019-12-12","dateModified":"2019-12-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.pame.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.pame.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d7705a23c50ede72936119380238a88bdeb91030521f9262dc3abc6fdd8add33?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/d7705a23c50ede72936119380238a88bdeb91030521f9262dc3abc6fdd8add33?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"pame.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.pame.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a309060_w16849_t1577626940.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.pame.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a309060_w16849_t1577626940.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.pame.sk\/preco-sa-hadame\/","wordCount":456,"articleBody":"H\u00e1danie sa je priam na\u0161\u00edm poslan\u00edm. Neexistuje asi p\u00e1r, ktor\u00fd by sa v \u017eivote nepoh\u00e1dal. Aspo\u0148 ja tak\u00fd nepozn\u00e1m. Po ur\u010ditom \u010dase vo vz\u0165ahu v\u017edy pr\u00eddu situ\u00e1cie, kedy m\u00e1me s partnerom odli\u0161n\u00e9 n\u00e1zory a nie sme schopn\u00ed prija\u0165 tie partnerove n\u00e1zory.\u00a0H\u00e1dky vznikaj\u00fa z r\u00f4znych d\u00f4vodov. Naj\u010dastej\u0161ie sa v\u0161ak h\u00e1dame pre \u00fapln\u00e9 mali\u010dkosti. Pre veci, pre ktor\u00e9 by sme sa v\u00f4bec nemuseli h\u00e1da\u0165. Ale mo\u017eno by sme sa ani neh\u00e1dali, ale sme v takej situ\u00e1cii, \u017ee n\u00e1s nahnev\u00e1 asi v\u0161etko. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 situ\u00e1cia, sme nerv\u00f3zni a m\u00e1me, \u010do robi\u0165 samy so sebou. Vtedy sa zvykneme e\u0161te so v\u0161etk\u00fdmi poh\u00e1da\u0165 a rob\u00edme si t\u00fato situ\u00e1ciu e\u0161te \u0165a\u017e\u0161ou ako je. Sk\u00fasen\u00ed \u013eudia v\u0161ak vedia, \u010do robi\u0165. Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee \u010dlovek nem\u00e1 v\u017edy len t\u00fa najlep\u0161iu n\u00e1ladu, sna\u017eia sa ho preto upokoji\u0165, obja\u0165 a pochopi\u0165. \u010cloveku sa u\u013eav\u00ed a potom sa \u010dasto c\u00edti ve\u013emi sk\u013e\u00fa\u010den\u00fd, \u017ee bol tak\u00fd nepr\u00edjemn\u00fd. Ale to v\u0161etko z n\u00e1s rob\u00ed zbyto\u010dn\u00fd stres, ktor\u00fd si \u010dasto navodzuje aj samy.\u00a0Ako z toho von? Najlep\u0161\u00edm a najefekt\u00edvnej\u0161\u00edm rie\u0161en\u00edm je \u00faprimn\u00fd a kon\u0161trukt\u00edvny rozhovor, v ktorom vyrie\u0161ite dan\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. S chladnou hlavou sa o nich porozpr\u00e1vate a nebudete zvy\u0161ova\u0165 hlas jeden na druh\u00e9ho. Ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 je si ur\u010di\u0165 svoje priority a pomyslie\u0165 na to, \u017ee o p\u00e1r mesiacov alebo rokov si u\u017e s najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ou pravdepodobnos\u0165ou ani nespomeniete, pre\u010do ste sa h\u00e1dali. Na toto si treba v\u017edy spomen\u00fa\u0165, ke\u010f sa tr\u00e1pite s h\u00e1dkou. Nie je to v\u017edy jednoduch\u00e9 nehneva\u0165 sa hne\u010f v danej chv\u00edli na dan\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ale d\u00e1 sa to, verte mi. Chce to pevn\u00fa v\u00f4\u013eu, ale ni\u010d nie je straten\u00e9. Rad\u0161ej p\u00e4\u0165 min\u00fat hnevu ako cel\u00e9 dni nerozpr\u00e1vania sa. Ve\u010f ko\u013eko kr\u00e1snych chv\u00ed\u013e s t\u00fdm m\u00f4\u017eete strati\u0165. Nikdy neviete, kedy to m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 va\u0161a posledn\u00e1 chv\u00ed\u013ea s dan\u00fdm \u010dlovekom a ve\u013emi by v\u00e1s to mrzelo, keby ste sa neudobrili. Na to existuje e\u0161te jedno kr\u00e1sne prirovnanie: „Nech nezapad\u00e1 slnko nad va\u0161\u00edm hnevom.“ Tak\u00e9to kr\u00e1sne slov\u00e1 n\u00e1m hovorievali naj\u010dastej\u0161ie na\u0161e babi\u010dky, ktor\u00e9 mali sk\u00fasenosti so \u017eivotom a vedeli, \u017ee l\u00e1ska je nie\u010do kr\u00e1sne a oplat\u00ed sa za \u0148u bojova\u0165, aj ke\u010f sa ob\u010das poh\u00e1dame.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                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